Are you the one holding it all together? From the outside, life looks good - you’re competent, caring, and capable. You’ve built a solid career, you’re raising a family, and you keep everything running smoothly. But under the surface, it feels like you’re the one carrying the weight of it all. Whether it’s work, home, or the emotional labour no one else seems to notice, there’s no space left for you.

I’m Jen, and I work with women (and couples) who are ready to stop surviving and start creating a life that actually feels good. After nearly 20 years in financial services as an actuary, I hit burnout trying to be everything to everyone. That breaking point led me to the tools, support, and emotional insight I now use every day with my clients.

Through Soulfire Coaching, I help high-achieving women find a more sustainable way of living and working, so they can succeed without burning out. I also coach with my husband Mark in our couples practice, The Goddards, supporting partners to reconnect, rebalance the mental load, and thrive as a team.

If you’re longing to feel more like yourself again - to lead with confidence, to have a relationship that feels like a partnership, to feel lit up rather than drained - I’d love to walk alongside you.

"Jen holds the most beautiful loving space that allows you to open yourself up completely and see with such clarity why things are the way they are. This enables true transformation to happen" - C, business leader

"Thank you! You have made an unbelievable difference to my life. I was feeling lost and burnt out when we started, but this week I saw a friend who said I seem so content - this is definitely down to our sessions " - G, Actuary